How to prolong pleasure: tricks, techniques and little hot secrets

Who wouldn't want those hot moments to last longer? The desire to prolong pleasure is more common than you think. And the good news is that, with a little care (and a pinch of malice), it is absolutely possible. Let's find out how to prolong pleasure: tricks, techniques and little hot secrets.

Why prolonging pleasure is good for you (not just in bed)

It's not just about lasting longer, but about experiencing sex in a more conscious, intense and connected way. Prolonging pleasure means:

• Increase intimacy in couples

• Reduce performance anxiety and rush

• Improve your body control

• Amplify the final orgasm

In short, the journey is as beautiful as the destination. In fact, sometimes it is more so.

Prolonging pleasure also helps break the sexual routine: every extra minute allows you to experiment with new caresses, fantasies and complicity. It becomes a game of mutual exploration that strengthens the emotional connection.

Mental Techniques: The Key Is in the Head (and Not Only)

Much of the control over pleasure comes from the brain. Here are some mental strategies:

• Erotic Mindfulness : Stay present in the here and now, focus on sensations, not on the "goal". Savor every caress, every look, every breath.

• Mindful Breathing : Slow down your breathing during hot moments to lower arousal. Deep breathing can reduce tension and delay orgasm.

• Sexy distractions : Shift the focus to other body parts or different fantasies to break the crescendo. For example, switching to intense kissing or prolonged caresses can bring the arousal level back under control.

The mind can be a powerful ally, but it requires training and complicity with your partner.

Physical Techniques: The Body Wants Its Part

• Start and stop : stop when you feel the orgasm is imminent, and then start again. This exercise, repeated several times, increases the pleasure threshold.

• Squeeze technique : apply light pressure to the base of the penis (or clitoris) to reduce the intensity. An effective technique, especially if done gently by your partner.

• Change positions : Alternating rhythms and positions is a great way to recalibrate pleasure. Some positions allow you to reduce direct stimulation and take control of the rhythm.

Additionally, introducing erotic massage, extended foreplay, and dominance/submission games helps to spread out the time without sacrificing intensity.

Training Out of Bed: The Secret of True Masters

• Kegel exercises : strengthen the pelvic floor and improve control. Just a few minutes a day can bring great benefits for both men and women.

• Edging during masturbation : training alone helps you know your limits and learn how to manage your climax. It's like a personal pleasure trainer.

• Nutrition and general well-being : Good physical shape improves blood circulation, endurance and the overall quality of performance.

Let's not forget that adequate sleep and stress management are also essential: a relaxed body responds better to stimuli and maintains control more easily.

Hot little helpers (which you can find in our store)

And for those who want a little extra help, there are products designed specifically to prolong the pleasure:

• Delay gels : reduce sensitivity, helping to slow down orgasm (like our " Coquette Chic Desire Chronos (pocket-sized delay gel) " ). Perfect for first-timers or for those who want to experiment without anxiety.

• Cock rings : These keep your erection longer and control blood flow. Some vibrating models also add stimulation for your partner.

• Controllable stimulators : to dose the intensity during couple games. An elegant way to manage mutual pleasure with a simple click.

• Massage candles : perfect for creating atmosphere and extending the time with long preliminary massage sessions.

Pleasure is a journey, not a race

Remember: there is no "perfect time". Every couple has their own rhythm. The secret is to get to know each other, communicate and... have fun finding your own hot balance. Because the real goal is not to last hours, but to enjoy every single moment. 😉

And if sometimes control gets out of hand? Patience. Even the unexpected is part of the game. The important thing is to live each encounter with curiosity, lightness and a lot of complicity.

Who doesn’t want those hot moments to last longer? The desire to prolong pleasure is more common than you think. And the good news is that, with a little care (and a little mischief), it is absolutely possible.