Guide to the best sex toys for beginners: where to start without panicking?
Guide to the best sex toys for beginners: where to start without panicking?
Guide to the best sex toys for beginners: where to start without panicking? Okay, let's get this straight: buying your first sex toy can feel a bit like walking into a magic shop without knowing which wand to choose.
Too many models, too many materials, too many buttons... and the fear of ending up with something that vibrates out of control in your sock drawer. But don't worry! I'll walk you through the perfect choice step by step for a stress-free first purchase of your sex toy.
Where to start? Don't panic, breathe.
The secret to not feeling overwhelmed is to start with something simple but effective. You don't need a silicone Star Trek Enterprise: you need a toy that is intuitive, enjoyable, and that makes you want to explore without anxiety.
Here are the 5 best sex toys for beginners .
1️⃣ The bullet vibrator: small but with a big heart
💡 Why choose it?
It's small, discreet, easy to use, and has no more buttons than a TV remote. Perfect for exploring external pleasure without too many frills. You can use it alone, as a couple, or even to tease unexpected areas (hello nipples, we were looking for you).
🔍 Smart tip: choose a silent and waterproof model, so you can try it in the shower without your roommates thinking your electric toothbrush has exploded.
2️⃣ The vibrating egg: the funniest secret game
💡 Why choose it?
It's like a bullet, but with an added edge: some models have a remote control, so you can even hand over control to someone and make everything more intriguing. Plus, it's super convenient to use under your underwear... to take it out of the house and turn a boring dinner into a much more interesting experience.
🔍 Smart tip: if you want a soft first experience, choose a model with different intensities : start slowly and increase only when you feel like it. Nobody wants a surprise orgasm in front of the supermarket cashier.
3️⃣ The silicone dildo: the timeless classic
💡 Why choose it?
Sometimes simplicity is key. The dildo is the timeless sex toy, perfect if you want a more natural and gradual experience. No buttons, no uncontrolled vibrations, just you exploring your body calmly.
🔍 Smart tip: Always choose medical silicone : it's soft, safe and easy to clean. And watch the size! Don't start off with something that looks like a TV remote.
4️⃣ The Clitoris Sucker: The Innovation That Changes the Rules
💡 Why choose it?
If the classic vibrator is the past, the clitoral sucker is the future. Instead of vibrating, it creates a suction effect that mimics… well, let's just say it does a great job. Very great.
🔍 Smart tip: It may seem strange at first, so start at the lowest level . I warn you: there is a risk of falling in love and not wanting to leave the house.
5️⃣ The vibrating ring: the couple's toy that makes everyone happy
💡 Why choose it?
A small accessory that makes everything more intense. It is worn at the base of the penis and vibrates, increasing the pleasure of both. Ideal if you want to experiment together with your partner without feeling overwhelmed by a larger sex toy.
🔍 Smart tip: Choose a model with adjustable vibration , so you can find the right rhythm for both of you.
How to choose your first sex toy without making a mistake?
✅ Safe material: always medical silicone or materials approved for intimate use.
✅ Ease of use: few buttons, no complex configurations.
✅ Right size for you: no need to start with professional models right away.
✅ Noise: Some vibrators sound like a tractor running. If you live with someone, choose a quiet model.
Last thing: lube and cleaning, best friends!
Water-based lubricant : Always a must, especially with silicone sex toys.
Post-use cleaning : warm water and intimate soap, or a specific sanitizing spray.
Play, explore and have fun!
The world of sex toys is a universe of pleasure that deserves to be discovered without fear. Choose calmly, listen to your body and remember: there are no right or wrong, only experiences to try. 😏
And you, what will be your first sex toy? Let me know in the comments (or write me secretly, I don't judge! 😂).
